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The Four Children

By: Dan Metz

The story of the four children comes from four quotes taken from the Torah. Each quote --three from Exodus, one from Deuteronomy-- describes a way in which someone should explain the exodus to their children. There is the Wise Child, the Wicked Child, the Simple Child, and the Child Who Doesn’t Yet Know How To Ask a Question.

The Wise Child

The wise one, what does he say? "What are the testimonies, the statutes and the laws which the L-rd, our G-d, has commanded you?" You, in turn, shall instruct him in the laws of Pesach, [up to] `one is not to eat any dessert after the Pesach-lamb.'

Like the wise child, Chidi seeks to know all of the rules and regulations and tries to follow them all even if they contradict or make every choice impossible. As soon as a problem arises, he’s summoned a dozen books and a chalkboard so he can learn everything he can, even if he isn’t going to do anything about it. It is, in some ways, the only thing he is active about.

The Wicked Child

The wicked one, what does he say? "What is this service to you?!" He says `to you,' but not to him! By thus excluding himself from the community he has denied the foundations of our faith. You, therefore, blunt his teeth and say to him: "It is because of this that the Lord did for me when I left Egypt"; `for me' - but not for him! If he had been there, he would not have been redeemed!"

In contrast to Chidi, Eleanor often acts in spite of rules and ethics, taunting environmentalists and shopping at Andy’s Coffee when her then-boyfriend points out that he’s been sexually harassing women. She defies rules and societal norms at every turn, so it’s no stretch of the imagination to picture her at a seder table saying, “Why is this service so important to you?”

Chidi & Eleanor

The Haggadah seems to praise the wise child and rebuke the wicked one, telling the latter that, if she’s going to challenge the traditional meaning of the holiday, then she can’t be part of the group. Looking at Eleanor as an example of a wicked child, we find someone who already feels like an outsider. When we look at Chidi as a wise child, we see someone who always seeks more information because he’s afraid to act.

As Rabbi Soloveitchik puts it, “We are not asked to knock out the wicked child’s teeth but to dull them, to disprove and reject his arguments. We do not ignore him but convince him of his error and bring him back to the fold. It is a task that requires more than one night.” And who would best benefit from working with the rebellious wicked child? Who has a love of learning strong enough to “dull their teeth”?

The Simple Child

The simple son, what does he say? "What is this?" Thus you shall say to him: "With a strong hand the Lord took us out of Egypt, from the house of bondage."

This one’s tricky. At first glance, it seems obvious that Jason, whose school was a junkyard where he learned how to sell magazines, would be the one who doesn’t know how to ask a question. He probably hadn’t even heard of “ethnics,” as he called it, until Chidi’s class. But maybe the simple child at a seder hadn’t thought to ask about it until they’d sat down at the table. Jason might not always have the answers --in fact, hardly ever--- but he still tries to figure out what the fork is going on around him.

The Child Who Doesn’t Know How To Ask

As for the one who does not know how to ask, you must initiate him, as it is said: "You shall tell your child on that day, saying: `It is because of this that the Lord did for me when I left Egypt.'"

Tahani Al-Jamil: Socialite, celebrity wrangler, and the most self-diluted person in the show. At least at first.

Any effort to correct her course would force her to admit her own ignorance, which she was raised to believe was the worst thing she could do. She spent much of the first season pretending things weren’t going wrong, leaving her the last person in the group to join the ethics class and finally begins to finally ask questions.

Jason & Tahani

Like with the wise and wicked children, this interpretation flips the original on its head. The child who doesn’t know to ask might be almost as well-educated as the wise child, or more so. The simple child who does ask might be encountering Judaism for the first time. In the case of Tahani and Jason, Tahani’s walls only started coming down because she started hanging out with someone who wasn’t afraid to admit ignorance.

haggadah Section: -- Four Children

Source: https://www.judaismunbound.com/the-four-children-the-good-place-edition