Oral History

Why Now?

Oral history is an important tool for transmitting one generation’s experiences, memories, and dreams to the next. During the Maggid portion of the seder, traditionally the youngest person present asks four questions about the rituals of Passover. By asking these questions and retelling the story of the Israelites’ liberation from Egypt, Jews have ensured that the traditions and history of our people have been preserved for thousands of years.

Why Here?

Just as the Jews as a nation have a story to be told, so too does every community, family, and individual. The seder is a time to gather, celebrate, and remember. What stories do we at this table have to tell? Is there a tale of liberation or a memory for us to share tonight? What lessons can these stories teach us?

What Do We Ask?

Weave the stories of your family or community into your Passover tradition. Below you will find some questions to discuss during the seder.

For Everyone:

  • What is your most distinct Passover memory? What smells, images, sounds, and tastes come to mind when you think of Passover?
  • Which Passover ritual holds the greatest significance or meaning for you? Why?
  • How has the celebration of Passover evolved over time in your family or community? (You might want to bring pictures of past seders.)
  • Have there been times in your life when the Passover themes of liberation and redemption have been particularly resonant for you? If so, describe those times.

For Elders:

  • How does this seder differ from those you attended as a child? Are there things you miss? New traditions you enjoy?
  • Describe a family seder from your youth. What roles did men, women, and children play?
  • How was Passover observed in the community in which you grew up? 

haggadah Section: -- Four Questions
Source: JewishBoston.com